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Family Law · Washington State

Parenting Plans & Custody

Creating Stable, Supportive Arrangements for Your Children

Practice areaFamily Law
ServingSeattle & Washington State
ConsultationsConfidential
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Parenting Plans & CustodyChild SupportDomestic Violence Protections

In Washington State, custody decisions are made through a Parenting Plan — a legal document that outlines how parents will share time, responsibilities, and decision-making for their children. At Yohana Valdez Law, we work with parents to create thoughtful, child-centered parenting plans that reflect each family’s unique needs.

Whether you're going through a divorce, legal separation, or need to update an existing arrangement, we’ll guide you with compassion and clarity every step of the way.

What is a Parenting Plan?

A Parenting Plan sets out the rules and expectations for how parents will raise their children after separation. It covers:

  • Where the child will live (residential schedule)

  • How decisions will be made (school, healthcare, religion, etc.)

  • How parents will communicate

  • Rules for transportation, exchanges, and conflict resolution

Washington courts prioritize the best interests of the child — focusing on stability, safety, and the child’s relationship with both parents.

What We Help With

  • Creating new parenting plans during divorce or separation

  • Modifying existing plans when circumstances change

  • Navigating disputes about custody or visitation

  • Establishing plans for non-married parents

  • Handling relocation requests

  • Addressing concerns related to safety, domestic violence, or substance abuse

We aim to reduce conflict and promote lasting, workable solutions for parents and children alike.

Frequently Asked Questions

What’s the difference between custody and a parenting plan?

In Washington, we don’t use the term “custody” the way some other states do. Instead, we use Parenting Plans, which cover both physical time (where the child lives) and legal decision-making (who makes choices about school, health, etc.).

What does a parenting plan include?

A standard parenting plan includes:

  • A detailed residential schedule

  • Allocation of decision-making authority

  • Rules for communication, transportation, and conflict resolution

  • Provisions for holidays, vacations, and school breaks

Do parenting plans have to be approved by a judge?

Yes. Even if you and the other parent agree on the terms, a judge must review and approve the plan to make it legally binding. We help draft the plan and submit it properly to the court.

Can we share parenting time equally?

Yes, if it’s in the best interest of the child and both parents can co-parent effectively. Equal time arrangements are more common now, but the court still considers factors like the child’s age, school location, and each parent’s availability.

What if the other parent and I don’t agree on a plan?

If there’s disagreement, the court may require mediation or a parenting evaluation. We’ll help you present your side clearly and work toward a fair and child-focused resolution.

Can a parenting plan be changed later?

Yes. If circumstances change — like a parent relocating or a change in the child’s needs — you can request a modification of the parenting plan. We help clients with both agreed and contested modifications.

What if there are safety concerns?

If there’s a history of domestic violence, substance abuse, or unsafe behavior, the court can limit or supervise the other parent’s time with the child. We can help request protective provisions to keep your child safe.

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